• isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 hours ago

    Being wronged isn’t a carte blanche. As soon as you introduce violence, suddenly violence actually becomes the measured response against YOU.

    am i supposed to ask the robber nicely to give me my stuff back?

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      4 hours ago

      I mean, it’s a reasonable place to start at the very least?

      We’re talking about pickpockets, right?

      Someone tried to pickpocket me in Europe on the train. I blocked the door and, despite having no common language, I left them know I was aware they had taken my stuff. I’m pretty sure they understood it was my intention to get it back and that was going to be a hassle for everyone.

      They just handed it back and left.

      Should I have just started swinging?

      • isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de
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        2 hours ago

        They just handed it back and left.

        you’ve just gotten lucky, most of the times they play dumb and act as if they did nothing, and even public shaming won’t do anything