Maybe I’m a minority and if it works for you all the power to you. Though I would almost prefer a forum site. Bring back the old days of some forum hosted on a random website. Not some walled garden like Facebook or reddit or discord. I think bb board or something like that is still around or somewhere thing like it. Drop in forum templet for a web site. I don’t think it would really be that much bandwidth to host something like that.

Anyway I miss the days of signing up for random forums on the internet.

Edit: https://www.phpbb.com/