• LilithElina@literature.cafe
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    10 hours ago

    Yes, but not a good one. Having children made my mental health so much worse, we would all be better off if I had chosen differently.

    • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
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      Don’t beat yourself up too much… just keep things in mind to make some small changes when possible. The kids are here already, there’s no going back, but you can go forward, despite the hardships, in a way you can be proud of, right? (I know, I know, it’s unsolicited advice, but it comes from a good place. ✌️)