• tomi000@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    I mean its 95% fake but it doesnt really make a difference for discussing it as if it was real.

    I think it deoends on the relationship between the two and the kind of meeting they had planned. If its a date and grey bailed for an other date, thats really shitty. If it was a casual meetup between friends and grey bailed for a dating opportunity, its not that shitty and green was a bit rude with the follow-up, but again depends on their relationship and how they usually communicate. In any case, the last few messages are completrly overboard.

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      16 hours ago

      Maybe they were pals and Green was saying “thank God” in a good-natured “yay, you finally got a date, happy for you bruh” manner but the response went right over Grey’s head and led Grey to make a total ass of themself.

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      13 hours ago

      Eh, even taking the must charitable view for the canceller, you could also bee charitable to the other one and say that everyone feels relief at cancelled social plans

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        11 hours ago

        Hm, not sure I understand what you mean? I dont think its common to feel relieved about cancelled plans. If you dont want to meet, why make plans in the first place?

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          6 hours ago

          Its very common for people with ADHD, autism, depression or some other mental problems that fuck with your executive function and mental capacity. AMD considering how technical and niche Lemmy is, I’d wager that about 50% of the userbase fall under any of those categories.

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          8 hours ago

          Didn’t mean to universalize but this is a common reaction. Part of my more charitable read