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Cake day: July 14th, 2023

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  • yuri@pawb.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    2 months ago

    gendered/non-gendered mixes like that can be a little confusing at first. i’ve met folks with these chosen pronouns, and the answers i’ve gotten have ranged from “i’m happy with either” to “i’d prefer if you used both roughly the same amount”.

    anecdotally, they’ve also been some of the most chill folks i’ve met when it comes to messing up their pronouns! which is wonderful for me because my brain is a pile of rotting swiss cheese that can sometimes do math ^^





  • yuri@pawb.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    2 months ago

    PSA: a large percentage of traditionally “gendered” clothing can ABSOLUTELY be pulled off by anyone. go to a thrift store and try on some clothes! if you feel good in it, you probably look good in it.

    plus, just think for a second about the last time you saw someone making a bold fashion choice. regardless of how they looked, you KNOW you were at least a little jealous of their confidence.

    if you wanna wear something, fucken just do it. anyone who gets all poopoo about it isn’t anyone you’d wanna be friends with anyway. live your bliss!

    e: i’m realizing how wild “trying on clothes at a thrift store” sounds, i was thinking more of a specific second-hand store that does have dressing rooms. idk how common those are. whoopsie!




  • yuri@pawb.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule :3
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    3 months ago

    from my experience with dads, as long as you give more than zero fucks about your own health you’ll probably be fine. my own pops is currently dying from an entirely treatable condition bc he thought the monthly blood tests his doctor ordered were some kind of conspiracy to get his blood! :3