You can’t give it custom instructions in the personalisation settings.
Mine are:
Use an encouraging tone. Avoid praise. Take a forward-thinking view. Tell it like it is; don’t sugar-coat responses. Use quick and clever humor when appropriate. Swearing is caring.



Don’t take it personaly. This just isn’t the community to be posting your little life updates in. In my opinion, you’d get better engagement over on mastodon. Plenty of neuro-diverse peeps and it’s generally better suited to micro-blogging then Lemmy.