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Cake day: January 1st, 2026

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  • ctrl+v: (from a previous post)

    i think it would be more accurate so say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.

    middle click: (from a message i sent to my friend on steam i think? no idea how middle click clipboard actually works honestly)

    o meowmaxxing is the PERFECT word
    holy shit i just realized i went to the grocery store wearing a fucking COLLAR
    i am goin gto
    di e
    goodness gracious me
    [2/22/2026, 5:40 PM] [my username]:
    wait i mig

    (if you want a conclusion to the story, i realized that my coat would have completely obscured it and no embarrassment was to be had lol)


  • hell yeah this is peak

    uh also when i started hrt i noticed i smelled a lot different, and it varies a little based on how long its been since application. in your experience does sex hormone fluctuation like actually have a noticeable effect on this too or not really? personally i’ve never really payed attention hehe


  • cw: talks a fair bit about sex and my perspective on it

    i sometimes experience a problem myself similar in vain to this.

    as much as i enjoy snuggling and affection and even more “smutty” stuff like breasts, i do not enjoy the prospect of sex. perhaps its some form of gender dysphoria, perhaps its something else, honestly not super sure. all i know is i don’t find sex appealing!! but i’m also not vehemently against it or disgusted by it. i think this article puts it really well:

    i think it would be more accurate so [sic] say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.

    with regards to nudity: the only times it actually makes me feel a little uncomfortable is when it is set in a sexual/romantic setting. if someone is at the lake with not as much as a patch of covering on them and just swimming around and having fun, i don’t mind at all. so long as its not sexualized i think nudity is perfectly okay! but, if it is brought into any romance through even just caressing the other’s hair or whatever, it puts me off a little.

    again, i do like this sort of affection, i do absolutely find people attractive. i just enjoy being able to be affectionate or observe it without having to partake in/bear witness to sex!

    however, a marginally decent number of people are seemingly unable to comprehend any this. quite often some people get incredibly confused no matter how much i try and explain this to them. i’ve never really been ridiculed for it thankfully, but it just does not seem to compute in some people’s heads that i am not fond of sex!!

    that aside, this is thankfully one of the better places i’ve seen on the internet, and i’m glad to be here!! regardless i provide you with my best wishes when it comes to fending off the demands of the internet, and my apologies for the ramble :D




















  • awesome!! never thought windows 9x styling to be super appealing, but what matters is you use system how you want. as far as font goes i don’t see all the hate. it does look a bit out of place, but its fun, and from my past experiences easier to read for some people. then again i use the choco cookie font on my cell phone so :)

    where do markdown documents fit into this? i’d put them personally between .doc and .png


  • kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonesock rule
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    17 days ago

    i’ve seen people use similar things to protect electrical antennas before, so arm warmers on moth antennae aren’t the most outlandish thing ever!!

    this paper also seems intriguing, although if they start putting microchips with antennas in our clothes i swear i will make a cocoon and just morph myself into a moth (with cute hosiery of course!! if i become a moth i’m gonna do it right >:3)