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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • I don’t think its toughness. Its that I didn’t care about punishment. What they going to do hit me more? Take away tv? At some point it has to stop. Just have to outlast. That doesn’t mean I purposely sort to break rules. They just defaulted to punishment so often it lost meaning to me. It was like taking a shower daily. I hated it but w/e. Now pain causes joker like laughter in me. Weird how mind adapts.


  • You sound like my mom with her mother. Breaks my heart to watch it for decades. She refuses to admit that her mom is incapable of loving her the way she wants. At one point mom gave Grandma whole paycheck and got an allowance. This is like 10 years ago a ~50 yo women. All of us are going wtf. Result was no change, constant verbal abuse continues. I could write a book but short is Mom will do anything to keep the peace.

    I always say I don’t understand why mom or grandma are how they are because actually had a loving mom. Love your kids.