How many of these 8 men have seen her play? Or even know how to themselves?

Yeah the car person here sounds like a “car enthusiast” to me, since preludes are still desirable for import racing and 7 is low, but no one who works on cars and knows how much work a car like that can be would ever recommend it to their less knowledgeable friend.

As my partner says:

“Heterosexual or homosexual?”

“Just sexual.”

Love pears. They’re a bit more temperamental though. Apples can stay good for weeks or months due, I think, to an especially robust skin. Pears might taste better but I wouldn’t risk throwing a ripened one in a backpack, for example.

IME it’s mostly culturally ingrained behavior, and usually an inverse relationship; i.e., people who will defend you when you’re not around often clown on you while you’re in the room, and the people who cut you down in your absence are often your strongest ally in person.