Lumelore (She/her)

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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • Secular isn’t a religion. It just means they are neutral towards it, which honestly, every therapist should be that way. It’s also a good thing to have a therapist that supports your identity. I have a lot of religious trauma related to me being queer and I would be very upset if I went to a therapist and they tried to convert me back to christianity and denied my queer identity. People do have problems where knowing their therapists beliefs would make them feel a lot safer and I don’t think that would actually impede progress.


  • Same here, nearly 1 year on prog. I think it helped more with shape and didn’t do much with size as well. There is oral progesterone available though, if you don’t want to take the suppository ones.

    And as cool as gargantuan genuines are, smaller breasts are still beautiful too, and they don’t cause back pain either, so that’s nice at least.



  • By opposite, I’m assuming you mean breast growth with no other feminizing changes? That I am not sure about how to achieve. Off the top of my head, I’m thinking that one could maybe go on a T blocker and/or estradiol for a while, and then stop. The breasts should still persist despite stopping, although they may shrink somewhat. Aside from that there is also breast augmentation surgery.










  • Yeah calling other people eggs I don’t think is ever a good idea, since like you mentioned, whatever someone’s gender is, they are valid, and it is entirely their own decision. I don’t entirely agree with the person you replied to because being a femboy is perfectly valid and not at all a “terrible fate,” although as someone who calls their past self an egg, I sympathize with them to a degree because I feel like I can’t call my own self an egg. Idk, maybe a new word is needed because of the toxicity associated with the word egg, but I’m unsure that that would actually fix anything.


  • The whole egg discourse puts a bad taste in my mouth as well. I’ve referred to my past self as an egg and then had someone tell me to stop using that word because it’s groomer language. I’ve never violated the egg prime directive and never will, but I like using egg to describe my past self. However, now when I use the term I get worried because I just don’t want to deal with people who have a stick up their butt.

    Edit: I made this comment not fully understanding the word egg and the discourse around it and I let my emotions take the lead, which I really shouldn’t have. I don’t agree with the person I replied to. All identities are valid, none are a terrible fate, and it is a person’s own decision as to what their gender is. People who say egg is groomer language when it’s being used to refer to oneself are just trolls or ignorant and should really just be avoided. Even when egg is being used against the prime directive, I don’t think it is productive discourse because it is just an accusation when they should have instead explained why the egg prime directive should never be violated, so I guess overall it’s best to just not engage. Moving forward, I will try my best to take time to think instead of immediately responding to my emotions.