yeah I also find people that make their job their whole identity, I guess I wouldnt be as hard on those that took their hobby and turned it into a job. But even then I would think, you do anything else, you like to cook, read a book anything. I mean I have the tizm so I know about fixating but I can word vomit on many subjects not just the ones that I latched onto.
By no means am I saying to repress all of that, but making it the only thing you are thats where I have issues. One sticker, maybe two I would be like I get it. His plate then also everything else, its all they think about or its all they want to be known for.